Yeah, I said the “p” word.
I know some of y’all are shocked and appalled that I didn’t use a more discreet term like loins or love pocket. And I’m sure others find it intriguing and/or amusing that I used a hyper-sexualized word in a very non-sexual context (like literally NON lol). But whether you’re shocked/appalled by it or intrigued/amused by it, the majority of you reading this have one main thing in common: It got your attention. So instead of focusing on that word, let’s get to the topic: Why I chose to be celibate and how it has impacted my [dating] life.
For some strange reason, celibacy seems to ruffle a lot of folk’s feathers. People have actually gotten defensive and low-key upset (why, I have no clue) when they learn I’m keeping the poon poon on lock until marriage. I had someone basically tell me that I’m stupid for forcing myself to not have sex. [Read more…]