Like most women, I’ve had quite a few not-so-good dating experiences in my lifetime — actually, a lot.
This one guy I dated wound up being a two-timing pathological liar, and another turned out to be a misogynistic control freak. Oh, and let’s not forget the one who took me to his prom to be his arm candy and then disappeared the moment he realized I wasn’t giving him any of my ‘goodies.’ Then there was the questionable one who had one too many feminine tendencies, the bug-a-boo who overcompensated way too much to win my affection, and the extremely nonchalant one with the smart mouth — I actually really liked that one, but could never figure out why. *shrugs*
But I’ll admit that while many of the so-called “men” I’ve dated needed some serious work, I obviously needed a bit of fixing up myself. After all, I was the one who was attracting these crazies, and you know what they say… You are who you attract.
With that being said, I had to do some serious soul searching before finally coming to grips with some things. So here’s what I discovered: [Read more…]